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Public Speaking Strategies

Not Taught in School

1. The 5-5-5 Rule

  • Scan 5 faces; Hold each gaze for 5 seconds
  • Repeat every 5 minutes
  • Creates authentic connection

2. Power Pause

  • Dead silence for 3 seconds after key points
  • Let your message land

3. The 3-Part Open

  • Hook with a question
  • Share a story
  • State your promise

4. Palm-Up Principle

  • Open palms when speaking = trustworthy
  • Pointing fingers = confrontational

5. The 90-Second Reset

  • Feel nervous? Excuse yourself
  • 90 seconds of deep breathing resets your nervous system

6. The Rule of Three

  • Structure key points in threes
  • Our brains love patterns
  • Information sticks better

7. 2-Minute Story Rule

  • Keep audience engaged with stories under 2 minutes
  • Any longer, you lose attention

8. The Lighthouse Method

  • Plant "anchor points" around the room
  • Rotate eye contact between them
  • Looks natural, feels structured

9. The Power Position

  • Feet shoulder-width apart
  • Hands relaxed at sides
  • Projects confidence even when nervous

10. The Callback Technique

  • Reference earlier points later in your talk
  • Creates a narrative thread
  • Audiences love connections

11. The Rehearsal Truth

  • Feet shoulder-width apart; Hands relaxed at sides
  • Projects confidence even when nervous